{"id":5453,"date":"2017-06-06T12:59:06","date_gmt":"2017-06-06T18:59:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/richyrocks.com\/?p=5453"},"modified":"2019-03-31T09:44:00","modified_gmt":"2019-03-31T15:44:00","slug":"emotionally-intelligent-people-wont","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/emotionally-intelligent-people-wont\/","title":{"rendered":"emotionally intelligent people won&#8217;t&#8230;.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>previous generations didn&#8217;t define <strong><em>emotional intelligence<\/em><\/strong>, but it&#8217;s an important part of any work\u00a0profile these days. in fact, an article by <strong>travis bradberry<\/strong> on the <strong>world economic forum website<\/strong> it&#8217;s crucial criteria in determining professional excellence. he defines it as<\/p>\n<h4>the \u201csomething\u201d in each of us that is a bit <em>intangible<\/em>. It affects how we manage , navigate social complexities, and make personal decisions that <em>achieve<\/em> positive results.<\/h4>\n<p><em><strong>intangible<\/strong><\/em> means <em>abstract, indefinable<\/em>. \u00a0<strong><em>achieve<\/em><\/strong> means <em>accomplish<\/em>, <em>get<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6126\" src=\"http:\/\/richyrocks.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/good-leadership-stimulates-positive-results-for-call-centers-and-customers-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/good-leadership-stimulates-positive-results-for-call-centers-and-customers-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/good-leadership-stimulates-positive-results-for-call-centers-and-customers.jpg 315w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h6><em><a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/has-got-structure-richyrocks\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">what&#8217;s he\u00a0got<\/a>? nobody knows. it&#8217;s <i><u>intangible<\/u><\/i>, but he&#8217;s definitely got it.<\/em><\/h6>\n<p>bradberry recently created a list of <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/9-emotionally-intelligent-things\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">9 things that emotionally intelligent people won&#8217;t do<\/a>. these are some of the highlights&#8211;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h4><strong>they won\u2019t let anyone limit their <em>joy<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>u can always <em>take<\/em> <em>people\u2019s opinions with a grain of salt<\/em>&#8230;&#8230;<em>self-worth<\/em> comes from within&#8230;&#8230;when emotionally intelligent people feel good about something that they\u2019ve done, they won\u2019t let anyone\u2019s opinions or accomplishments <a href=\"https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/english-practice-from-an-acceptance-speech\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>take<\/em> that <em>away<\/em> from them<\/a>.<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/joy-definiiton\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>joy<\/em><\/strong> <\/a>is <em>extreme happiness<\/em>. <em><strong>with a grain of salt<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0is used to show\u00a0<em>doubt<\/em>,\u00a0<em>skepticism<\/em>. or <em>not worrying<\/em>.<em>\u00a0<strong>self-worth<\/strong><\/em> is <em>the value a person places on themself<\/em>. <strong><em>take away<\/em><\/strong> means <em>remove<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6124\" src=\"http:\/\/richyrocks.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/salt-and-tequila-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/salt-and-tequila-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/salt-and-tequila.jpg 283w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/p>\n<h6><em>tequila: <i><u>take it with a grain of salt<\/u><\/i>. (a few grains of salt probably) and a\u00a0lime. (beyondtheshaker.com)<\/em><\/h6>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h4><strong>they won&#8217;t <em>forget<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>emotionally intelligent people are quick to <em>forgive<\/em>, but that doesn\u2019t mean that they <em>forget<\/em>&#8230;.[they] are <em>unwilling<\/em> to be <em>bogged down<\/em> unnecessarily by others\u2019 mistakes, so they<em> let them go<\/em> quickly and are assertive in protecting themselves from future <em>harm<\/em>.<\/h4>\n<p><em><strong>forgive and forget<\/strong><\/em> is a common expression, but according to bradberry, it is not what emotionally intelligent people do. \u00a0they\u00a0<strong><em>forgive<\/em><\/strong> (excuse, pardon)\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">but don&#8217;t<\/span>\u00a0forget. <strong><em>unwilling<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0means emotionally intelligent people\u00a0<em>don&#8217;t accept it<\/em>. <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/bog-down-definition\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong><em>bog down<\/em><\/strong><\/a> means <em>bothered by<\/em> or <em>slow down<\/em>. <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/harm-definition\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em><strong>harm<\/strong><\/em><\/a> means <em>damage<\/em>.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/richyrocks-youtube-subscribe\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fun english practice <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" style=\"margin-left: 3px; margin-right: 3px; vertical-align: middle; -webkit-box-shadow: none; -moz-box-shadow: none; box-shadow: none;\" src=\"https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-emoji-one\/icons\/1F600.png\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" \/>\u00a0richyrocks english on youtube<\/a><\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h4><strong>they won\u2019t prioritize perfection<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>in other words, emotionally intelligent <em><strong>folks<\/strong> <\/em>(people) don&#8217;t set perfection as their <strong><em>benchmark<\/em><\/strong> (primary objective). they don&#8217;t want to<\/p>\n<h4><em>end up spending<\/em>\u00a0[their] time<em> lamenting<\/em> what [they] failed to <em>accomplish<\/em> and what \u00a0[they]<em>should have done<\/em> differently <em>instead of enjoying<\/em> what [they] were able to <em>achieve<\/em>.<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/end-up-examples\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>end up<\/strong><\/em><\/a> indicates a conclusion that comes as a result of a process. <strong><em>end up spending<\/em> <\/strong>and<em><strong> instead of enjoying<\/strong><\/em> are both examples of how the <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/ing-verbs-after-prepositions\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">-ing form of verbs must be used after prepostions<\/a>. <em><strong>lament<\/strong><\/em> is <em>regret<\/em>, <em>feel bad about<\/em>. <strong><em>accomplish<\/em><\/strong> is a synonym of <em>achieve<\/em>. what they <strong><em>should have done<\/em><\/strong> is a hypotheitical scenario in the past (<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/third-conditional-posts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>3rd conditional<\/strong><\/a>). this structure is often used to show regret.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6127\" src=\"http:\/\/richyrocks.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/regrets-300x198.jpg\" alt=\"stormtrooper lamenting\" width=\"300\" height=\"198\" srcset=\"https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/regrets-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/regrets.jpg 530w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h6><em>the boss made him\u00a0<i><u>end up lamenting<\/u><\/i> what they failed to <i><u>accomplish<\/u><\/i>. emotional intelligence was not a priority for darth vader.<\/em><\/h6>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h4><strong>they won\u2019t <em>hang around<\/em>\u00a0negative people<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"st__content-block st__content-block--text\">\n<h4><em>complainers<\/em> are bad news<\/h4>\n<\/div>\n<p><em><strong>hang around<\/strong><\/em> means <em>spend time with, socialize<\/em>. <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/complaint-definition\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em><strong>complainers<\/strong><\/em> <\/a>are<em> people who vocally express negative feelings<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6128\" src=\"http:\/\/richyrocks.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/shutterstock_14964214-300x164.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"164\" srcset=\"https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/shutterstock_14964214-300x164.jpg 300w, https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/shutterstock_14964214.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h6><em>nobody wants to <i><u>hang around<\/u><\/i>\u00a0that guy. (shutterstock)<\/em><\/h6>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h4><strong>they won\u2019t <em>hold grudges<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>when a <em>threat<\/em> is <em>imminent<\/em>, this reaction is essential to your survival, but when a <em>threat<\/em> is ancient history, <em>holding onto<\/em> that stress <em>wreaks havoc<\/em> on your body and can have devastating health consequences over time.<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/hold-a-grudge-def\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong><em>hold a grudge<\/em><\/strong><\/a>\u00a0is an idiom\u00a0that meanss\u00a0<em>maintaining feelings of resentment.<\/em>\u00a0similarly, \u00a0<i style=\"font-weight: bold;\">hold on to<\/i> means <em>keep, not release<\/em>. <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/wreak-havoc-definition\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><i>wreak havoc<\/i><\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>means<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><em>cause damage<\/em>.\u00a0a <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/threat-definition\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em><strong>threat<\/strong> <\/em><\/a>is <em>danger<\/em>, <em><strong>imminent<\/strong><\/em> means it is inevitable and going to happen soon.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6129\" src=\"http:\/\/richyrocks.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/v1.bTsxMTE3NzI1MjtqOzE3NDA5OzEyMDA7ODAwOzEyMDA-203x300.jpeg\" alt=\"grudge match movie poster\" width=\"203\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/v1.bTsxMTE3NzI1MjtqOzE3NDA5OzEyMDA7ODAwOzEyMDA-203x300.jpeg 203w, https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/v1.bTsxMTE3NzI1MjtqOzE3NDA5OzEyMDA7ODAwOzEyMDA.jpeg 206w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 203px) 100vw, 203px\" \/><\/p>\n<h6><em>this movie is about two old boxers who have\u00a0<i><u>held a grudge<\/u><\/i>\u00a0since they were <a href=\"https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/prime\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">in their prime<\/a>.<\/em><\/h6>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h4><b>they won\u2019t say &#8220;yes&#8221; <em>unless<\/em> they really want to<\/b><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>saying no to a new <em>commitment<\/em> honors your existing <em>commitments<\/em> and gives you the opportunity to successfully <em>fulfill<\/em> them.<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/unless-def\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong><em>unless<\/em><\/strong><\/a>\u00a0indicates that emotionally intelligent people don&#8217;t say &#8220;yes&#8221;\u00a0<em>except <\/em>when they really feel it. <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/commitment-def\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em><strong>commitment<\/strong><\/em><\/a> (NOT <em>compromise<\/em>) is a <em>promise<\/em> or <em>engagement<\/em>.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/fulfill-def\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>fulfill<\/strong><\/em> <\/a>means <em>achieve<\/em>.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6120\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6120\" style=\"width: 404px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-6120\" src=\"http:\/\/richyrocks.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cerebro-emocional-2-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"characteristics of emotionally intelligent people\" width=\"404\" height=\"303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cerebro-emocional-2-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cerebro-emocional-2-334x250.jpg 334w, https:\/\/richyrocks.com\/coolenglish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cerebro-emocional-2.jpg 366w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 404px) 100vw, 404px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6120\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">a visual representation of emotional intelligence<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>how important is\u00a0emotional intelligence? 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